Alice
Hello! I'm an advisor, and you may refer to me as Alice.
I'm a female, and I enjoy counseling. You are welcome to ask me anything, yes anything, but I mainly focus on questions related to love, friendship and family. I have no degree in counseling, and I haven't stated that whatsoever!
Please, feel free to ask me a question by submitting your doubts here:
Tumblr ask - for long Q's.
Formspring - for short Q's.
Read through my blog if you feel any of my answered posts are relatable to your doubts :)
You are not permitted to steal any of the questions and answers from this blog. All questions are from users online, anonymous or not, and all the answers are solely answered by me.
You will need:
Communication- mobile phones, Skype, letters, e-mails, etc. If you can, please try to communicate with this person daily! If you can’t Skype on a daily basis then I’m sure your lover will like to at least hear your voice or read about your day! Do consider writing letters- handwritten messages to your love will always be more romantic than something typed in Helvetica.
Trust: Build trust with your lover. Make them feel secure as they are miles away from you are! Understand that it is quite natural your love may doubt or not trust you for the first few weeks/months. You need to make them know that nothing can break your relationship. This way, they’ll will feel happy and you will be at rest.
Visitations: This, I know, is the most difficult out of all, but you will have to plan up a date to meet one another. Long-distance relationships can be a pain in the neck but Skype will not always cure the yearning for a little cuddle or a kiss. Make every visit extra special. This will make them be excited for your next visit and will keep them happy as you made your one trip very great and something hard to forget. However if you cannot meet up repeatedly, then the both of you should know to not feel bad. Long-distance relationships may have its pros but it will also (and always) have it’s cons.
Positivity: This is much needed. If either of you are not positive about this relationship and always seem to be thinking of it through a negative perspective- then this is never going to work. Look forward to the phone calls, e-mails, Skype video chats and the few meet ups you will have. Treasure every moment and be thankful that you can stay in contact with your lover.
Lastly, don’t whine about having “no physical contact”. It’s obvious that once you’re in a long-distance relationship there will be hardly any morning kisses and night cuddles. I know that it’s a major con, but you have to deal with it and as I said, look at it positively.
Good luck. I hope I helped you and I hope that your relationship will be successful as it has been till now :) xo
It seems this blog has been deleted? Or has the url of it been changed? Anyway, thanks for the compliment sweetie. If you’re reading this right now, then please know that I know you weren’t trying to steal my followers! It’s nonsense, if someone from my follower list follows you because of me then I’m more than happy. It’s just sad that you deleted or possibly changed the url of your blog. I wish I could have helped you earlier! xo
It’s my pleasure! I always follow my followers back :)
Hey sweetie. Don’t worry about his past, focus on the present. When it comes to love there isn’t any competition- just plain love. Give your relationship your all and love like you’ve never loved before. Bringing up his ex-lover all the time isn’t healthy for this relationship. It’s okay if he doesn’t want to get serious- tell him you can wait (if you want to, that is) and tell him that it’ll be worth it. When he sees that you care so much about this, then I’m sure he’ll give this a try! Keep thinking positive and keep your chin up! xo
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I’m going to be answering all your questions here as Formspring doesn’t allow users to post more than 255 characters! Please visit my ask box to ask me something! Sorry for all this confusion…
Much love,
Alice xo
Thank you so much, Amelia. I don’t mind this not being a question- I’m so happy you appreciate what I’m doing!
I feel so unappreciated sometimes. Or rather, most of the times. I’ve been so nice to everyone around me that they take advantage of me. I just can’t help it but to always think that I’m just so stupid to have been so nice but they treat me like crap. =(
Why do you stand it? Either let them know that it’s bothering you, or stop being extra nice! They’ll stop if you do any of those actions. I promise. I know, the world is full of assholes, but what can you do? Be a big girl/boy and pull up your socks :) Good luck.
#formspring.mewhy to I keep get random erections when I’m in a public place? it’s really starting to embaras me, help?
Wear baggy pants.
#formspring.meHow many hours do you spend surfing the Internet in a day?
Hardly any time. I only log on once a day to check all my questions I receive!
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